The role of a caregiver or family member evolves profoundly when a loved one transitions into an assisted living community. This change doesn’t diminish the necessity of connection—but it does transform it. We need to find new ways to support our loved ones who have started a new chapter of their life.
One of the most tangible expressions of our enduring affection and commitment to our parents is the time we spend visiting them. You should try to visit your parents regularly, at least 2–4 times a month. This can be especially important after they move in as it can help them transition to their new home.
Why Regular Visits Are Important
Assisted living communities are as much about meeting emotional and social needs as they are about providing physical assistance. While there are many new friends to make and experiences to enjoy, nothing quite beats seeing your family stop by.
Frequent visits can have a positive effect on seniors, supporting their psychological health and even their physical well-being.
Visits bring joy, help alleviate feelings of isolation, and can significantly improve a senior’s quality of life. The presence of family members or close friends often brings a sense of comfort and normalcy, reminding them that they are cherished and not forgotten.
Factors to Consider When Planning Visits
Deciding on how often and when to visit isn’t always straightforward. It requires a thoughtful consideration of several factors:
- Your Parent’s Health: The health of your loved one is a crucial factor. Those with more significant health challenges may appreciate more frequent visits, though they can also make timing difficult.
- Community’s Activities and Events: Find out about the community’s events and consider planning your visits around them, either so you might participate together or to avoid interrupting an ongoing event.
- Your Schedule: When planning visits, take your schedule and other commitments into account. For some, consistency in visitation is more important than frequency, so set a realistic schedule you can commit to.
- Quality Over Quantity: The length of time you spend with your loved one is often more important than the frequency. Make the most out of your visits by focusing on quality time together, rather than just checking off a visit from your to-do list.
It is possible to visit too much. Your parents still need space to adjust to their new environment and new people. Time with the community can help them build trust and feel more independent. Just like everything in life, it takes balance. You can always talk to your loved one and see how they feel about when you visit.
Additional Ways to Stay Connected Beyond Visits
While regular visits are essential, there are other ways to stay connected with your loved ones in assisted living communities. These methods can provide additional support and enrich their experience within their new home.
Video Calls & Virtual Visits
Technology has made it easier than ever to stay connected with loved ones, even when physical visits aren’t possible. Set up regular video calls or virtual visits with your family and use this time to catch up and see each other’s faces.
Sending Care Packages
Sending care packages is a great way to show your love and support for your loved one in assisted living. Consider sending their favorite snacks, books, or items that may have sentimental value.
Inviting Them to Family Events
Include your loved one in family events and gatherings as much as possible. This can help them feel included and continue to be a part of your life. If they’re physically unable to attend, you can catch them up on all the happenings with photos and stories on your next visit.
Writing Letters or Sending Cards
In this digital age, receiving a handwritten letter or card is a thoughtful gesture. Your parents may love to get a special card or letter from you or their grandchildren.
Volunteering at the Community
If possible, consider volunteering at the assisted living community where your loved one resides. This not only allows you to spend quality time with them but also helps out the community and introduces you to other residents.
Tips for Making Visits Meaningful
Visiting a loved one in assisted living should be an enjoyable and meaningful experience for both parties. Here are some tips to help make the most out of your visits:
- Plan Activities Together: Consider bringing along something fun and engaging to do together, such as a puzzle, craft project, or favorite board game.
- Share Memories: Use this time together to reminisce and share stories from the past. This can be especially meaningful for seniors who may have difficulty remembering recent events.
- Enjoy a Meal Together: Share a meal with your loved one, whether it’s at the community dining hall or in their room. This can be a great way to bond and catch up with each other.
We Hope You Stop By Soon!
Regular visits are not just about helping our loved ones feel connected; they also provide a sense of comfort and reassurance for caregivers. Knowing that your loved one is well taken care of, happy, and surrounded by loving family or friends can ease the stress and worry that often comes with being their child.
So, prioritize and plan visits with your loved ones; they will surely be grateful for the time you spend together. Remember, it’s not just about the quantity of visits but the quality of time spent together that truly matters. At Somerset Neighborhood, we love when our resident’s families come to visit!
Stop by soon if your parent is staying with us, or book a tour and discover the bright side of assisted living.
